Flirting with women is an art, not a science. Not everyone has the ability to flirt with women right away, but its never too late to start. In reality, women are shy and are not flirtatious. So, if you are still dreaming of having a hot woman come up to you and say, "Hey, you are cute. Want to have dinner with me?," sorry, thats just not going to happen.
The whole point of flirting with a woman is expressing to her that you have an interest in her. That's really what its all about. Its a way of communicating what you're thinking, without directly saying, lets go out tomorrow! But remember, flirt at your own risk. Someone may become enraptured with your flirting and before you know it, they want to be your girlfriend/wife.
Below are my list for flirting tips for guys. Pay attention gentlemen:
Flirting With Women
Just Do It
Next time you see that hot woman in the corner at the party or the girl you've been eyeing at the cafeteria and she's online, don't run away. Instead, walk confidently to her and engage her. The worst thing that can happen is you don't do anything and someone else flirts with her. A little flirting never hurts anyone!
Eye Contact - Gaze, Don't Stare
Eye contact is very essential if you want to connect with someone in a subtle manner. But don't stare - nobody likes people who stare. Gaze into her eyes and speak to her that you want to get to know her, but don't stare at her like she's a Kobe beef steak. There's a fine line between gazing, staring, and looking lost so practice this one. Eye contact is the first key to flirting with women.
Show Genuine Interest In Her
Pay genuine attention to her. Listen to what she has to say. Women love it when guys just listen to them and listening is the best way to show you are genuinely interested in someone. And for a lot of guys, listening is a lot better than speaking. Listen to a woman is a great way to flirt with her.
Flattery Goes A Long Way
Compliments that are flattering to her are a great way to flirt with a woman. A little bit of flattering is not going to harm you in any way. But compliments should be real and shouldn't be so over the top where she just laughs at you.
Have Fun
Relax and have fun when flirting. Sometimes, women love guys who are flirting and if they make a mistake, it only makes them that more real. Don't get too carried away by the whole issue of flirting. Just keep it real and light. You are flirting with a woman, not trying to interrogate a murder suspect.
Above All, Smile
No matter how well you are dressed, how shiny your shoes are, your perfect look is never complete without that million-dollar smile. A smile can go a long way to establish a good impression about you as being a kind, happy individual. The smile should be subtle yet visible and she smiles back, that is the best flirting sign you can have.
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